{"id":22679,"date":"2023-04-10T21:54:31","date_gmt":"2023-04-10T18:54:31","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/candname.com\/tr\/?p=22679"},"modified":"2023-04-10T21:56:44","modified_gmt":"2023-04-10T18:56:44","slug":"hazret-i-lokmanin-ogluna-ogutleri","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/candname.com\/tr\/?p=22679","title":{"rendered":"Hazret-i Lokman’\u0131n o\u011fluna \u00f6\u011f\u00fctleri"},"content":{"rendered":"
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Hazret-i Lokman ilim ve hikmetiyle dillere destan bir zatt\u0131r. Bunun i\u00e7indir ki, kendisine Lokman Hak\u00eem, denmi\u015ftir. Hz. Lokman, ismi Kur’\u00e2n’da da ge\u00e7en, peygamber veya veli oldu\u011fu hakk\u0131nda kesin bir bilgi bulunmayan bir m\u00e2n\u00e2 b\u00fcy\u00fc\u011f\u00fcd\u00fcr.<\/div>\n
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\u0130sl\u00e2m tarihinde Hazret-i Lokman’\u0131n hikmetli s\u00f6zleri, vecizeleri, \u00f6\u011f\u00fctleri ve tavsiyeleri me\u015fhurdur.<\/div>\n
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Hafs bin \u00d6mer’in rivayetine g\u00f6re, Hz. Lokman yan\u0131na bir torba hardal tanesi koyarak o\u011fluna \u00f6\u011f\u00fct vermeye ba\u015flar. Her \u00f6\u011f\u00fct verdik\u00e7e torbadan bir hardal \u00e7\u0131kar\u0131r. Sonunda torbadaki hardal t\u00fckenir ve o\u011fluna da \u015f\u00f6yle der:<\/div>\n
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“Ey o\u011ful, sana o kadar \u00f6\u011f\u00fct verdim ki, \u015fayet bu \u00f6\u011f\u00fctler bir da\u011fa verilseydi, da\u011f yar\u0131l\u0131rd\u0131.”<\/div>\n
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Hz. Lokman’\u0131n Saran ismindeki bu o\u011flu babas\u0131n\u0131n verdi\u011fi b\u00fct\u00fcn \u00f6\u011f\u00fctlere uymu\u015ftu.12<\/div>\n
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Lokman Aleyhissel\u00e2m\u0131n hikmetli s\u00f6zlerinin as\u0131l kayna\u011f\u0131 Kur’\u00e2n-\u0131 Kerimdir.<\/div>\n
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O halde Kur’\u00e2n-\u0131 Kerimde yer alan bu \u00f6\u011f\u00fctler tefsirlerde de geni\u015f\u00e7e bulunur. Cenab-\u0131 Hak, Hazret-i Lokman’\u0131n dilinden bu s\u00f6zleri \u015fu \u00e2yetlerle (me\u00e2len) beyan buyurur:<\/div>\n
12. ibni Kes\u00eer Terc\u00fcmesi, 12:6409.<\/div>\n
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Allah’a ortak ko\u015fma<\/strong><\/div>\n
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“Hani Lokman o\u011fluna \u00f6\u011f\u00fct verirken demi\u015fti ki, ‘O\u011flum (ey o\u011ful!) Allah’a ortak ko\u015fma. Muhakkak ki \u015firk pek b\u00fcy\u00fck bir zul\u00fcmd\u00fcr.<\/div>\n
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Allah her yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 ortaya \u00e7\u0131kar\u0131r<\/strong><\/div>\n
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“O\u011flum, e\u011fer yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131n i\u015f hardal tanesi kadar bile olsa ve bir ta\u015f i\u00e7ine girse, Allah onu ortaya \u00e7\u0131kar\u0131r. Muhakkak ki, Allah en gizli i\u015fleri b\u00fct\u00fcn inceli\u011fiyle bilir, O her \u015feyden hakk\u0131yla haberdard\u0131r.<\/div>\n
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Namaz\u0131n\u0131 dos do\u011fru k\u0131l<\/strong><\/div>\n
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“O\u011flum, namaz\u0131n\u0131 dos do\u011fru k\u0131l. \u0130yili\u011fi tavsiye et, k\u00f6t\u00fcl\u00fckten sak\u0131nd\u0131r. Ba\u015f\u0131na gelene sabret. \u015e\u00fcphesiz ki bunlar u\u011frunda azim ve sebat edilmeye de\u011fer i\u015flerdendir.<\/div>\n
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Kas\u0131larak y\u00fcr\u00fcme, yava\u015f konu\u015f<\/strong><\/div>\n
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“Gururlan\u0131p insanlardan y\u00fcz\u00fcn\u00fc \u00e7evirme. Yery\u00fcz\u00fcnde kas\u0131larak y\u00fcr\u00fcme. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc Allah b\u00fcy\u00fckl\u00fck taslayan ve \u00f6v\u00fcnenleri sevmez.<\/div>\n
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“Y\u00fcr\u00fcy\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnde mutedil ol. Sesini al\u00e7alt. Seslerin en \u00e7irkini, \u015f\u00fcphesiz ki, e\u015feklerin sesidir.”13<\/div>\n
13. Lokman S\u00fbresi, 13-20.<\/div>\n
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TEFS\u0130RDEK\u0130 \u00d6\u011e\u00dcTLER<\/strong><\/em><\/div>\n
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Hazret-i Lokman’\u0131n Kur’\u00e2n’da ge\u00e7en \u00f6\u011f\u00fctleri, ayn\u0131 s\u00fbrenin tefsirlerinde geni\u015fletilerek verilir. Hazret-i Lokman’\u0131n tefsirlerde ge\u00e7en \u00f6\u011f\u00fctlerinden ve hikmetli s\u00f6zlerinden baz\u0131lar\u0131 \u015f\u00f6yledir:<\/div>\n
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Takvay\u0131 esas al<\/strong><\/div>\n
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Ey o\u011ful!<\/div>\n
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Takvay\u0131 kendin i\u00e7in k\u00e2rl\u0131 bir ticaret olarak kabul et. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc b\u00f6yle ticaretler sonsuz kazan\u00e7lar temin eder.<\/div>\n
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Merasimlere kat\u0131l<\/strong><\/div>\n
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Ey o\u011ful!<\/div>\n
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Cenaze merasimlerine kat\u0131l. D\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn merasimlerinden de uzak durmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015f. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc cenaze sana \u00e2hireti hat\u0131rlat\u0131r; d\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn ise d\u00fcnyaya \u00e7eker.<\/div>\n
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Horozdan geri kalma<\/strong><\/div>\n
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Ey o\u011ful!<\/div>\n
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Horozdan daha geri kalma. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc sen uykunun derinliklerinde iken, o d\u00fcnyay\u0131 sese vererek insanlar\u0131 uykudan uyand\u0131rmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131r.<\/div>\n
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Tevbeyi geciktirme<\/strong><\/div>\n
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Ey o\u011ful!<\/div>\n
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Tevbeyi geciktirme. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc \u00f6l\u00fcm ans\u0131z\u0131n geliverir.<\/div>\n
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Cahille dost olma<\/strong><\/div>\n
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Ey o\u011ful!<\/div>\n
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Cahil kimselerle dostluk kurma. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc onunla dost olursan, kendi yapt\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131 senin ho\u015f kar\u015f\u0131lad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 sanar.<\/div>\n
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Allah’tan kork<\/strong><\/div>\n
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Ey o\u011ful!<\/div>\n
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Allah’tan hakk\u0131yla kork. Kalbinin bozuk oldu\u011funu bildi\u011fin halde ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131n sana sayg\u0131 g\u00f6stermesi i\u00e7in takva ehli oldu\u011funu ihsas ettirme.<\/div>\n
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Susmak alt\u0131nd\u0131r<\/strong><\/div>\n
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Ey o\u011ful!<\/div>\n
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\u015eimdiye kadar susmaktan dolay\u0131 hi\u00e7 pi\u015fmanl\u0131k duymad\u0131m. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc s\u00f6z g\u00fcm\u00fc\u015fse, s\u00fck\u00fbt alt\u0131nd\u0131r.<\/div>\n
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G\u00fcnahlardan sak\u0131n<\/strong><\/div>\n
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Ey o\u011ful!<\/div>\n
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K\u00f6t\u00fcl\u00fck ve g\u00fcnahlar senden sak\u0131nd\u0131\u011f\u0131 gibi, yani i\u015flemedik\u00e7e sana dokunmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 gibi, sen de onlardan sak\u0131n. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc k\u00f6t\u00fcl\u00fck k\u00f6t\u00fcl\u00fc\u011f\u00fc, g\u00fcnah da g\u00fcnah\u0131 \u00e7eker.<\/div>\n
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\u0130lim meclislerine kat\u0131l<\/strong><\/div>\n
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Ey o\u011ful!<\/div>\n
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\u00c2limlerin meclisinde bulun. Hikmet ehlinin sohbetlerini dinle. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc Allah kuru topra\u011f\u0131 ya\u011fmurla nas\u0131l canland\u0131r\u0131rsa, \u00f6lm\u00fc\u015f kalbleri de hikmetli s\u00f6zlerle \u00f6yle diriltir.”14<\/div>\n
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14. Tefs\u00eer\u00fc’s-S\u00e2v\u00ee, 3:255-256.<\/div>\n
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Yalandan sak\u0131n<\/strong><\/div>\n
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Ey o\u011ful!<\/div>\n
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Allah, yalanc\u0131n\u0131n y\u00fcz suyunu kurutur, haya duygusunu giderir. Ahl\u00e2ks\u0131z kimsenin de s\u0131k\u0131nt\u0131s\u0131 hi\u00e7 eksik olmaz.<\/div>\n
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Ahmak adamdan uzak dur<\/strong><\/div>\n
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Ey o\u011ful!<\/div>\n
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Kayalar\u0131 uzaklara ta\u015f\u0131mak, ahmak adama laf anlatmaktan daha kolayd\u0131r.<\/div>\n
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Kendi i\u015fini kendin g\u00f6r<\/strong><\/div>\n
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Ey o\u011ful!<\/div>\n
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Cahili vas\u0131ta olarak kullanmaktan, i\u015fini g\u00f6rd\u00fcrmekten uzak dur. \u015eayet ak\u0131ll\u0131 birisini bulamazsan kendi i\u015fini kendin g\u00f6r.<\/div>\n
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Kendi milletinin k\u0131z\u0131yla evlen<\/strong><\/div>\n
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Ey o\u011ful!<\/div>\n
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Kendi milletinden olmayan bir k\u0131zla evlenme. Aksi takdirde \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n ileride s\u0131k\u0131nt\u0131dan kurtulamazlar.<\/div>\n
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Ey o\u011ful!<\/div>\n
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\u00d6yle bir zaman gelecek ki, sab\u0131rl\u0131 insanlar\u0131n bile y\u00fcz\u00fc g\u00fclmez olacakt\u0131r.<\/div>\n
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Allah’\u0131n an\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131 meclislere kat\u0131l<\/strong><\/div>\n
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Ey o\u011ful!<\/div>\n
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Kat\u0131laca\u011f\u0131n meclisleri kendin ara bul. Allah’\u0131n an\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131 meclisleri bulunca hemen oturuver. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc \u00e2lim isen ilmin artar, cahil isen yeni bir \u015feyi \u00f6\u011frenmi\u015f olursun. Oraya inen rahmetten sen de pay\u0131n\u0131 al\u0131rs\u0131n. Allah’\u0131n an\u0131lmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 meclislere hi\u00e7 kat\u0131lma. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc \u00e2lim de olsan, cahil de olsan zarar g\u00f6r\u00fcrs\u00fcn. Ayr\u0131ca oraya inecek olan \u0130l\u00e2h\u00ee gazaptan sen de nasibini al\u0131rs\u0131n.<\/div>\n
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Ey o\u011ful!<\/div>\n
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Sofrana takva ehli m\u00fc’minleri davet et.<\/div>\n
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Tecr\u00fcbe sahipleriyle isti\u015fare et<\/strong><\/div>\n
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Ey o\u011ful!<\/div>\n
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Her i\u015finde ilim ve tecr\u00fcbe sahibi kimselerle isti\u015fare et, onlar\u0131n fikrini almaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015f.<\/div>\n
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Takvadan bir gemi edin<\/strong><\/div>\n
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Ey o\u011ful!<\/div>\n
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D\u00fcnya dipsiz bir denizdir. Onda niceleri bo\u011fulmu\u015ftur. Bunun i\u00e7in takvadan bir gemi edin. \u0130\u00e7ine \u00eem\u00e2n\u0131 y\u00fckle. Tevekk\u00fcl yelkeniyle a\u00e7\u0131l. Ancak bu \u015fekilde sel\u00e2metle yol al\u0131r, sahile \u00e7\u0131kars\u0131n.<\/div>\n
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K\u00f6t\u00fc kom\u015fudan uzak dur<\/strong><\/div>\n
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Ey o\u011ful!<\/div>\n
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Nice a\u011f\u0131r y\u00fckler ta\u015f\u0131d\u0131m. Fakat k\u00f6t\u00fc kom\u015fu kadar a\u011f\u0131r bir y\u00fcke rastlamad\u0131m. Nice ac\u0131lar tatt\u0131m, fakat fakirlikten daha \u015fiddetli bir ac\u0131 tatmad\u0131m.<\/div>\n
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\u0130limden nasibini al<\/strong><\/div>\n
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Ey o\u011ful!<\/div>\n
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\u0130nsan fakir de olsa ilim ve hikmetiyle h\u00fck\u00fcmdarlar\u0131n meclisinde yer al\u0131r.<\/div>\n
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Arkada\u015f se\u00e7imine dikkat et<\/strong><\/div>\n
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Ey o\u011ful!<\/div>\n
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Birisiyle dostluk kurmak istiyorsan, \u00f6nce onu \u00f6fkelendirecek bir \u015fey yap. \u015eayet \u00f6fkeli iken sana insafl\u0131 davran\u0131rsa ona yakla\u015f, insafs\u0131z davran\u0131rsa uzak dur.<\/div>\n
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\u00c2hirete haz\u0131rlan<\/strong><\/div>\n
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Ey o\u011ful!<\/div>\n
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D\u00fcnyaya geldin geleli \u00e2hirete do\u011fru yol al\u0131yorsun. Bunun i\u00e7in \u00e2hiret yurdu, sana d\u00fcnya yurdundan daha yak\u0131nd\u0131r.<\/div>\n
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Dilini duaya al\u0131\u015ft\u0131r<\/strong><\/div>\n
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Ey o\u011ful!<\/div>\n
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Dilini ‘Allah’\u0131m, beni affet’ demeye al\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc \u00f6yle anlar vard\u0131r ki, o saatlerde Allah dualar\u0131 reddetmez, istedi\u011fini ihsan eder.<\/div>\n
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Bor\u00e7lanmaktan uzak dur<\/strong><\/div>\n
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Ey o\u011ful!<\/div>\n
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Bor\u00e7lanmaktan uzak dur. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc bor\u00e7, seni g\u00fcnd\u00fcz zillete s\u00fcr\u00fckler, gece de \u00fcz\u00fcnt\u00fcye bo\u011far.<\/div>\n
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G\u00fcnah i\u015flemeye cesaretin olmas\u0131n<\/strong><\/div>\n
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Ey o\u011ful!<\/div>\n
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Allah’tan \u00f6yle bir \u015fey iste ki, g\u00fcnah i\u015flemeye cesaretin olmas\u0131n. Ve Allah’tan \u00f6yle kork ki, rahmetinden hi\u00e7bir zaman \u00fcmidin kesilmesin.<\/div>\n
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\u00d6nce sel\u00e2m ver<\/strong><\/div>\n
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Ey o\u011ful!<\/div>\n
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Bir cemaatin bulundu\u011fu yere gitti\u011fin vakit, \u00f6nce onlara \u0130sl\u00e2m\u0131n okunu at, yani sel\u00e2m ver. Sonra bir k\u00f6\u015feye otur, onlar\u0131 konu\u015fuyor halde g\u00f6rmedik\u00e7e sen de konu\u015fma. \u015eayet Allah’\u0131n zikrine dalacak olurlarsa sen de onlara kat\u0131l. Fakat ba\u015fka bir s\u00f6ze ge\u00e7erlerse oradan ayr\u0131l.<\/div>\n
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Kendini anla<\/strong><\/div>\n
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Ey o\u011ful!<\/div>\n
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\u0130ki d\u00fcnyada mes’ut olmak istiyorsan, kendini anla. Okuyup bilgili olmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015f. \u00c7al\u0131\u015f ki, bilenle bilmeyen bir olmaz.<\/div>\n
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Tembel olma<\/strong><\/div>\n
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Ey o\u011ful!<\/div>\n
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Tembel olma. Tembellik bedbahtl\u0131k al\u00e2metidir.<\/div>\n
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Acele etme<\/strong><\/div>\n
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Ey o\u011ful!<\/div>\n
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Acele etme, acele \u015feytan i\u015fidir.<\/div>\n
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G\u00fcler y\u00fcz g\u00f6ster<\/strong><\/div>\n
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Ey o\u011ful!<\/div>\n
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Ahl\u00e2k\u0131n\u0131 d\u00fczelt. Dostuna da, d\u00fc\u015fman\u0131na da g\u00fcler y\u00fcz g\u00f6ster. Ancak de\u011ferin ve itibar\u0131n k\u0131r\u0131lacak derecede hareket etme.<\/div>\n
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Orta yolu tut<\/strong><\/div>\n
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Ey o\u011ful!<\/div>\n
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Her \u015feyin hay\u0131rl\u0131s\u0131 olan orta yolu tercih et.<\/div>\n
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Yolda dikkatli y\u00fcr\u00fc<\/strong><\/div>\n
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Ey o\u011ful!<\/div>\n
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Yolda y\u00fcr\u00fcrken y\u00fcz\u00fcn\u00fc g\u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc oraya buraya \u00e7evirme ki, g\u00f6nl\u00fcn vesvesede kalmas\u0131n.<\/div>\n
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Mecliste \u00f6nce oturma<\/strong><\/div>\n
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Ey o\u011ful!<\/div>\n
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Bir cemaat i\u00e7inde bulundu\u011funda onlar ayakta iken oturma. Oturduklar\u0131 zaman sen de oturuver.<\/div>\n
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Yollara t\u00fck\u00fcrme<\/strong><\/div>\n
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Ey o\u011ful!<\/div>\n
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B\u0131y\u0131k ve sakal\u0131nla oynama. Parma\u011f\u0131n\u0131 burnuna sokma. Yollara t\u00fck\u00fcrme, sesli s\u00fcmk\u00fcrme. Elinle sinek kovalamay\u0131 terk et.<\/div>\n
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Az konu\u015f<\/strong><\/div>\n
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Ey o\u011ful!<\/div>\n
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S\u00fck\u00fbt ve teenni ile hareket et. Az konu\u015f. \u00c7ok konu\u015fmak, yan\u0131lmaya sebeptir.<\/div>\n
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S\u00f6z\u00fc fazla da\u011f\u0131tma<\/strong><\/div>\n
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Ey o\u011ful!<\/div>\n
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Konu\u015furken s\u00f6z\u00fc fazla da\u011f\u0131tma. Aksi takdirde \u015ferefine zarar gelir. Konu\u015furken ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131 utand\u0131rma. Ka\u015f g\u00f6z i\u015fareti yapma.<\/div>\n
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G\u00fczel ve l\u00e2tif s\u00f6zleri duymaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015f. Fazla hayrete d\u00fc\u015fme. S\u00f6z\u00fcn tekrarlanmas\u0131n\u0131 isteme. \u0130nsanlar\u0131 g\u00fcld\u00fcrecek ve kendini maskara edecek s\u00f6zlerden sak\u0131n.<\/div>\n
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At\u0131p tutma<\/strong><\/div>\n
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Ey o\u011ful!<\/div>\n
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Kimse hakk\u0131nda at\u0131p tutma.<\/div>\n
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Fazla \u0131srar etme<\/strong><\/div>\n
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Ey o\u011ful!<\/div>\n
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Senden bir \u015fey istendi\u011fi zaman, elinden geliyorsa vermeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015f. Birinden bir \u015fey istedi\u011finde de fazla \u0131srar etme.<\/div>\n
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Dinde tart\u0131\u015fmaya girme<\/strong><\/div>\n
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Ey o\u011ful!<\/div>\n
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Dinle alakas\u0131 olmayan meselelerde aksi vaki ise tart\u0131\u015fmaya ve m\u00fcnaka\u015faya girme.<\/div>\n
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Fakirli\u011fini kimseye a\u00e7ma<\/strong><\/div>\n
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Acizli\u011fini ve fakirli\u011fini hi\u00e7 kimseye, hatt\u00e2 ailene dahi a\u00e7ma ki, onlar\u0131n yan\u0131nda itibar\u0131n d\u00fc\u015fmesin, s\u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc dinlemez olmas\u0131nlar.<\/div>\n
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Hizmet\u00e7ilerle \u015fakala\u015fma<\/strong><\/div>\n
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Ey o\u011ful!<\/div>\n
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Hizmet\u00e7i ve benzeri kimselerle \u015fakala\u015fma. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc<\/div>\n
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bunlarla \u015fakala\u015fmak hakaret ve d\u00fc\u015fmanl\u0131\u011fa sebep olur. Onlara \u00f6yle muamele et ki, hem seni sevsinler, hem de senden korksunlar.<\/div>\n
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\u015eiddetten sak\u0131n<\/strong><\/div>\n
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\u00c7ocuklar\u0131 ve elinin alt\u0131ndakileri terbiye ederken \u015fiddetten sak\u0131n. \u00d6fkelendi\u011fin vakit vakarla ge\u00e7i\u015ftirmeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015f. M\u00fcmk\u00fcn olursa s\u00f6v\u00fcp d\u00f6vme ki, aksi takdirde onlar\u0131n g\u00f6z\u00fcnde mehabetin yok olur.<\/div>\n
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Kendini ve \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131 \u00f6v\u00fcp durma.<\/div>\n
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Hayas\u0131z gen\u00e7lerle ve o halde olan k\u0131z \u00e7ocuklar\u0131 ile \u00fclfet etme. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc d\u00fcnya ve \u00e2hirette mezellete sebep olur.<\/div>\n
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\u00d6nce d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn<\/strong><\/div>\n
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Bir kimse ile bozu\u015fursan, dilini tut ve makbul olan s\u00f6z\u00fc s\u00f6yle. \u00d6nce d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn, sonra s\u00f6ze giri\u015f.<\/div>\n
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Herkesin de\u011ferini ve lay\u0131k oldu\u011fu h\u00fcrmeti muhafaza eyle.<\/div>\n
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Azla yetin<\/strong><\/div>\n
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Ey o\u011ful!<\/div>\n
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Bir kimsenin davetinde bulundu\u011fun vakit, azla yetin. Dalkavukluk edip de o yeme\u011fi \u00f6vmekle ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131n yeme\u011fini k\u00f6t\u00fcleyip tahkir etme.<\/div>\n
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Misafirlikte g\u00f6zlerine dikkat et<\/strong><\/div>\n
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Ey o\u011ful!<\/div>\n
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Bir kimsenin evinde misafir kald\u0131\u011f\u0131n vakit g\u00f6zlerine dikkat et. Her tarafa bak\u0131p durma. Durumuna vak\u0131f olduktan sonra dine ayk\u0131r\u0131 da olsa s\u0131rr\u0131n\u0131 if\u015fa etme.<\/div>\n
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Elini \u00e7ek<\/strong><\/div>\n
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Ey o\u011ful!<\/div>\n
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Emanete hiyanetten elini \u00e7ek.<\/div>\n
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Kimseye a\u00e7ma<\/strong><\/div>\n
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Ey o\u011ful!<\/div>\n
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Bir i\u015fe ba\u015flad\u0131\u011f\u0131n zaman, meydana gelmeden \u00f6nce kimseye a\u00e7ma ki, mahcup d\u00fc\u015fmeyesin.<\/div>\n
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\u00c7ok ver<\/strong><\/div>\n
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Ey o\u011ful!<\/div>\n
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Sadakay\u0131 \u00e7ok ver. Mal sevgisini g\u00f6nl\u00fcnden \u00e7\u0131kar.<\/div>\n
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Raz\u0131 ol<\/strong><\/div>\n
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Ey o\u011ful!<\/div>\n
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Do\u011fru s\u00f6yle, Allah’tan gelene raz\u0131 ol.<\/div>\n
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Yemekte \u015funlara dikkat et<\/strong><\/div>\n
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Ey o\u011ful!<\/div>\n
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Yemekten \u00f6nce ve sonra ellerini y\u0131ka. Bu hal fakirli\u011fini giderir, g\u00f6ze kuvvet verir.<\/div>\n
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\u00c7ok yemek kalbe kat\u0131l\u0131k ve gaflet verir. \u0130badette tembelli\u011fe sebep olur.<\/div>\n
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Yeme\u011fin ba\u015f\u0131nda Bismillah, sonunda Elhamd\u00fclillah, ortas\u0131nda da nimetin Allah’tan geldi\u011fini d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn.<\/div>\n
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Tek elle ekme\u011fi koparma. Bu hareket kibirli insanlar\u0131n \u00e2detidir.<\/div>\n
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Yeme\u011fin ba\u015f\u0131nda ve sonunda bir par\u00e7a tuz yemek bir\u00e7ok hastal\u0131\u011fa kar\u015f\u0131 devad\u0131r.<\/div>\n
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Lokmay\u0131 k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck tut ve iyice \u00e7i\u011fne.<\/div>\n
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Misafir geldi\u011fi zaman m\u00fcmk\u00fcnse yeme\u011fi b\u00fcy\u00fck kaba koy, berekete sebep olur.<\/div>\n
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Yemek yerken \u00f6n\u00fcnden al, ekme\u011fin ve taba\u011f\u0131n ortas\u0131ndan alma.<\/div>\n
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Elinden ekmek ve yemek par\u00e7as\u0131 d\u00fc\u015ft\u00fc\u011f\u00fcnde al, temizle ve \u00f6yle ye.<\/div>\n
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S\u0131cak olan yeme\u011fe so\u011futmak i\u00e7in a\u011fz\u0131nla \u00fcfleme, so\u011fuyuncaya kadar bekle.<\/div>\n
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Yeme\u011fi \u00e7abuk yeme.<\/div>\n
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Hurma ve kay\u0131s\u0131 gibi say\u0131labilir meyveleri teker teker ye, \u00e7ifter \u00e7ifter yeme ve \u00e7ekirdeklerini bir tarafa topla.<\/div>\n
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Yemek aras\u0131nda \u00e7ok su i\u00e7me. Su i\u00e7erken barda\u011f\u0131n i\u00e7ine bak. \u0130\u00e7ine uygunsuz bir \u015fey d\u00fc\u015fm\u00fc\u015f olmas\u0131n. Suyu i\u00e7erken \u00fc\u00e7 nefeste i\u00e7iver.<\/div>\n
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Yeme\u011fe herkesten \u00f6nce el uzatma.<\/div>\n
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Yemek esnas\u0131nda g\u00fczel \u015feylerden bahset.<\/div>\n
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Sofrada bulunan arkada\u015flar\u0131na ara s\u0131ra g\u00f6z ucuyla bak. Yemek ve ekme\u011fi o tarafa s\u00fcr.<\/div>\n
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Misafirler \u00e7ekingen davran\u0131rlarsa \u00fc\u00e7 defadan fazla yemeleri i\u00e7in \u0131srar eyleme. Yemek yeme iste\u011fin yoksa \u00f6z\u00fcr beyan eyle.<\/div>\n
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Dilini tut<\/strong><\/div>\n
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Ey o\u011ful!<\/div>\n
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\u0130lim ve takva ehli veya herhangi bir sebeple senden ileride bulunan bir kimsenin huzurunda dilini tut.<\/div>\n
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Dostlar\u0131n\u0131 dinle<\/strong><\/div>\n
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Senin iyili\u011fini isteyen dostlar\u0131n\u0131n tavsiye ve \u00f6\u011f\u00fctlerini can kula\u011f\u0131yla dinle.<\/div>\n
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Do\u011fru ol<\/strong><\/div>\n
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Ey o\u011ful!<\/div>\n
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S\u00f6z\u00fcnde, i\u015finde ve gidi\u015finde do\u011fru ol. Do\u011fru olan s\u00f6zlerinin bile hayrete ve teredd\u00fcde sebep olacaksa, s\u00f6yleme daha iyi.<\/div>\n
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\u00dcmidini kesme<\/strong><\/div>\n
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\u0130nsanlar\u0131n g\u00f6nl\u00fcn\u00fc almaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015f. Allah’\u0131n rahmetinden \u00fcmidini kesme.<\/div>\n
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\u0130yi ol<\/strong><\/div>\n
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Ey o\u011ful!<\/div>\n
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A\u00e7\u0131kta ve gizlide iyi olmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015f.<\/div>\n
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Varl\u0131k yokluktan, ak\u0131l sarho\u015fluktan iyidir.<\/div>\n
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Bir \u015feyi vaktinden \u00f6nce isteme.<\/div>\n
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\u0130\u00e7ini s\u00fcsle<\/strong><\/div>\n
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Ey o\u011ful!<\/div>\n
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\u0130\u00e7ini d\u0131\u015f\u0131ndan daha \u00e7ok s\u00fcsle: \u0130\u00e7in Hakk\u0131n, d\u0131\u015f\u0131n halk\u0131n bakt\u0131\u011f\u0131 yerdir.<\/div>\n
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Her yerde ve her zaman Allah’\u0131 yan\u0131nda haz\u0131r naz\u0131r olarak bil.<\/div>\n
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Allah nazar\u0131nda seni utand\u0131racak i\u015fi b\u0131rak.<\/div>\n
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Hazret-i Lokman ilim ve hikmetiyle dillere destan bir zatt\u0131r. Bunun i\u00e7indir ki, kendisine Lokman Hak\u00eem, denmi\u015ftir. Hz. Lokman, ismi Kur’\u00e2n’da da ge\u00e7en, peygamber veya veli oldu\u011fu hakk\u0131nda kesin bir bilgi bulunmayan bir m\u00e2n\u00e2 b\u00fcy\u00fc\u011f\u00fcd\u00fcr. \u0130sl\u00e2m tarihinde Hazret-i Lokman’\u0131n hikmetli s\u00f6zleri, vecizeleri, \u00f6\u011f\u00fctleri ve tavsiyeleri me\u015fhurdur. Hafs bin \u00d6mer’in rivayetine g\u00f6re, Hz. Lokman yan\u0131na bir torba …<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":32,"featured_media":22680,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[5371,1],"tags":[6104,5911,3436,5609,117,1616,930,6102,6103,140],"class_list":["post-22679","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","","category-alinti-yazilar","category-inanc","tag-hz-lokman","tag-irk","tag-kultur","tag-kurmanc","tag-kurtler","tag-manset","tag-millet","tag-nasihat","tag-ogut","tag-zaza"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/candname.com\/tr\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/22679","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/candname.com\/tr\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/candname.com\/tr\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/candname.com\/tr\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/32"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/candname.com\/tr\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=22679"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/candname.com\/tr\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/22679\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/candname.com\/tr\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/22680"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/candname.com\/tr\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=22679"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/candname.com\/tr\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=22679"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/candname.com\/tr\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=22679"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}