D\u00fcn bir yak\u0131n\u0131mla sohbet ederken, ge\u00e7enlerde bizim Lice\u2019de, mahkemede hakimin kendisine \u201cKa\u00e7 karde\u015fsiniz?\u201d diye sordu\u011funu, bac\u0131 ve karde\u015flerinin toplam say\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 s\u00f6yledi\u011fini, bunun \u00fczerine hakimin kendisine \u201cAferin! Buralarda ilk kez birinin k\u0131zlar\u0131 da karde\u015ften sayd\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6r\u00fcyorum\u201d dedi\u011fini anlatt\u0131.<\/p>\n
Buna benzer durumlar\u0131n bir \u00e7ok K\u00fcrd\u00fcn ba\u015f\u0131ndan ge\u00e7ti\u011fini tahmin edebiliyorum. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc hem \u00e7ok duymu\u015flu\u011fum hem bizzat ya\u015fam\u0131\u015fl\u0131\u011f\u0131m olmu\u015ftur. \u00d6rne\u011fin, 1996 May\u0131s\u0131nda, g\u00f6zlerim ba\u011fl\u0131, \u00e7\u0131r\u0131l\u00e7\u0131plak sorguday\u0131m. \u201cKarde\u015flerinin ad\u0131n\u0131 say!\u201d dedi, sorgucu. Erkek karde\u015flerimin ad\u0131n\u0131 sayd\u0131m. \u201cUlan siz ne medeniyetsiz, ilkel insanlars\u0131n\u0131z. Kad\u0131nlar\u0131 insandan bile saym\u0131yorsunuz\u2026\u201d diye k\u00f6p\u00fcrd\u00fc. Kiyamet kadar hakaret, k\u00fcf\u00fcr e\u015fli\u011finde a\u015fa\u011f\u0131lad\u0131 da a\u015fa\u011f\u0131lad\u0131 beni, milletimi.<\/p>\n
\u201c\u00d6yle de\u011fil ama! Bac\u0131 ve karde\u015flerinin adlar\u0131n\u0131 say demedin ki sen\u201d deyince, duraksad\u0131 sorgucu. \u201cBiz, karde\u015f kelimesini sadece \u2018erkek karde\u015f\u2019 manas\u0131nda anl\u0131yoruz\u201d dedim.<\/p>\n
K\u00fcrt\u00e7ede k\u0131z karde\u015f i\u00e7in ayr\u0131, erkek karde\u015f i\u00e7in ayr\u0131 s\u00f6zc\u00fckler vard\u0131r. T\u00fcrk\u00e7edeki gibi \u201cKa\u00e7 karde\u015fsiniz?\u201d demiyoruz biz. Kurmanc\u00ee olarak \u201cH\u00fbn \u00e7end xwu\u015fk \u00fb bira ne?\u201d Zazak\u00eede yine ayn\u0131 \u015fekilde \u201c\u015eima \u00e7end way\u00ee \u00fb bira y\u00ea?\u201d diye sorar\u0131z. Diyelim ki \u201cEy karde\u015flerim!\u201d anlam\u0131nda K\u00fcrt\u00e7e olarak seslensek e\u011fer, \u201cGel\u00ee xwu\u015fk \u00fb biran!\u201d deriz. Ve \u201cbac\u0131\u201d anlam\u0131ndaki s\u00f6zc\u00fc\u011f\u00fc her zaman karde\u015ften \u00f6nce s\u00f6yleriz.<\/p>\n
Bence T\u00fcrk\u00e7ede de \u201ckarde\u015f\u201d s\u00f6zc\u00fc\u011f\u00fc \u201cerkek karde\u015f\u201d anlam\u0131ndad\u0131r asl\u0131nda. Ama son 40-50 y\u0131lda \u015fehirle\u015fme k\u00fclt\u00fcr\u00fcyle, k\u00f6yl\u00fcl\u00fc\u011f\u00fc \u00e7a\u011fr\u0131\u015ft\u0131r\u0131yor diye \u201cbac\u0131\u201d s\u00f6zc\u00fc\u011f\u00fc ay\u0131psand\u0131 ve git gide terk edildi, unutuldu. Asl\u0131nda ge\u00e7i\u015f s\u00fcrecinde, yerine \u201ck\u0131z karde\u015f\u201d tamlamas\u0131 kullan\u0131ld\u0131, ama gittik\u00e7e sadece \u201ckarde\u015f\u201d s\u00f6zc\u00fc\u011f\u00fc kullan\u0131l\u0131r oldu.<\/p>\n
Ama K\u00fcrt\u00e7ede \u00f6yle de\u011fildir, \u201cbac\u0131\u201d anlam\u0131ndaki \u201cxwu\u015fk\/xweng\/xwah\u00ea; xwu\u00e7\u00ea\/wak\u00ea\/waye\/wakil\u00ea\u201d s\u00f6zc\u00fckleri oldu\u011fu gibi duruyor. Ve biz K\u00fcrtler, T\u00fcrk\u00e7eyi do\u011fal olarak K\u00fcrt\u00e7e mant\u0131\u011f\u0131yla anlad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131zdan, yine do\u011fal olarak, T\u00fcrk\u00e7edeki dilsel de\u011fi\u015fime senkronize olamad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131zdan, \u00e7o\u011fumuz hala \u201cKa\u00e7 karde\u015fsiniz?\u201d sorusunu \u201cH\u00fbn \u00e7end bira ne?\u201d \u015feklinde anl\u0131yoruz.<\/p>\n
Bu durum, dile ili\u015fkin anlambilime giren bir konudur asl\u0131nda. Medeni olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131zla, kad\u0131nlar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131, bac\u0131lar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 insan yerine koymamakla ilgili de\u011fildir. B\u00f6yle bir durumla kar\u015f\u0131la\u015fan karde\u015flerimiz bunu bu \u015fekilde anlatmal\u0131 kendilerine.<\/p>\n
Ro\u015fan Lezgin<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" D\u00fcn bir yak\u0131n\u0131mla sohbet ederken, ge\u00e7enlerde bizim Lice\u2019de, mahkemede hakimin kendisine \u201cKa\u00e7 karde\u015fsiniz?\u201d diye sordu\u011funu, bac\u0131 ve karde\u015flerinin toplam say\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 s\u00f6yledi\u011fini, bunun \u00fczerine hakimin kendisine \u201cAferin! Buralarda ilk kez birinin k\u0131zlar\u0131 da karde\u015ften sayd\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6r\u00fcyorum\u201d dedi\u011fini anlatt\u0131. Buna benzer durumlar\u0131n bir \u00e7ok K\u00fcrd\u00fcn ba\u015f\u0131ndan ge\u00e7ti\u011fini tahmin edebiliyorum. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc hem \u00e7ok duymu\u015flu\u011fum hem bizzat ya\u015fam\u0131\u015fl\u0131\u011f\u0131m olmu\u015ftur. …<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":53,"featured_media":21514,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[65],"tags":[5534,1616],"class_list":["post-21513","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","","category-forum","tag-kiz","tag-manset"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/candname.com\/tr\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21513","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/candname.com\/tr\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/candname.com\/tr\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/candname.com\/tr\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/53"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/candname.com\/tr\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=21513"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/candname.com\/tr\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21513\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/candname.com\/tr\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/21514"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/candname.com\/tr\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=21513"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/candname.com\/tr\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=21513"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/candname.com\/tr\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=21513"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}